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How to be (less) Awkward: If you find group meetings to be overwhelming, offer to be the notetaker. Having a defined purpose can be helpful in structuring your involvement so you feel less unsure of how much or little to participate, and being the one to record the key points of the conversation to distribute to the team after the meeting keeps you as an integral and valuable part of the project.