"You know I didn't really intend to embrace you that long / But then again I wasn't the only one holding on" -- Ani DiFranco

How to be Smarter: I am not sure of the original source of this tip, but I use it myself quite often: "When faced with two choices, toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for." Doing a coin toss is an easy way to figure out what is in your gut, quickly. How to be Prettier: An SP&A Exclusive Discount Code: With the promo code SMART, you can get 15% off the fabulous jewelry shop By Jeannie, valid until 10/31. [I love the Charlotte Necklace and the Satya Earrings].

How to be (less) Awkward: Fun silly site: Let me Google that for you.