"You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice" -- Steven D. Woodhull

How to be Smarter: Beware the difference between comfortable and complacent in a relationship. Comfortable means you can freak out about something small and not worry he will dump you; complacent means that you don't even bother dressing up for dates anymore. The trick is to be comfortable without being complacent. How to be Prettier: I really, really like chocolate and will not give it up. I am neutral about yogurt, but it is so good for you. So I trick myself into eating yogurt by putting chocolate bits in it. Layer chocolate bits (the Nestle semi-sweet morsel kind) with vanilla yogurt and it is just like a sundae.

How to be (less) Awkward: Sometimes turning 20 can be a little sad, because you still have another year to go before you are legal. But I think a really cute idea for turning 20 is to have a Roaring 20's theme party.